The bottom line: You can pursue wellness without body hatred. In fact, you’ll be far more consistent and kind to yourself when you start from a place of self-acceptance rather than self-control.
Wellness wasn't a destination she would eventually reach. It was the kindness she showed herself along the way.
The body positivity movement, in its true form, dismantles this argument. Body positivity is not about giving up on health; it is about giving up on shame as a motivational tool. Research from the Journal of Health Psychology consistently shows that shame and negative body image are predictors of disordered eating, exercise avoidance, and higher cortisol levels. In contrast, body acceptance is linked to more intuitive eating, consistent movement, and proactive healthcare.